Three Circumstances for Making Wise Choices
If we accept that we possess Free Will then this requires us to be responsible for our choices and their consequences. However, it can help to be aware that there are three main mental, emotional and spiritual states we face when making choices.
First of all there are times when feelings are unsettled and our thoughts are in turmoil.
Sometimes our emotions are in turmoil when we ponder and
struggle with the alternatives. We may experience many strong feelings as we
face the prospect of choosing—anger, fear, confidence, confusion, hope, sadness
and many others. Wise Spiritual Teachers warn us about making decisions at
these times because these situations require us to more carefully observe,
understand and interpret these feelings. We could all benefit by taking time
out to discern the spiritual meaning of our feelings and thoughts and discover
how they point us to the right choice, a choice based on deeper wisdom.
Secondly there are times when seemingly there is no
doubt.
Sometimes the right decision
seems unmistakably clear. We know what the right choice is. All we need do is
act on what we know. However, we often put off acting on what we know and this
can be both puzzling and frustrating. However, the reality may be we don’t know
enough either about the situation or our real self. Once again we could benefit
from taking time out discern the spiritual meaning and discover how this
could point us to the right choice.
These are the times when we
can we approach a decision in a tranquil and settled frame of mind. This is
probably the wisest and easiest time for decision-making because we can bring to bear our wholeness,
our oneness and all the power of our emotional, thoughtful and spiritual self
to shine a light on our choices. These are times of real spiritual discernment
and wisdom. All the great Spiritual Traditions have examples of how great
Teachers took ‘time out’ to discern and make wise decisions and statements.
Reflection or more correctly
self-reflection is a spiritual necessity. In the Hindu Tradition it is one of
the 5 Niyamas – It is known as Swadhyaya. – Study of Self
by the self. One focus of this niyama is learning from our own lives. We are
our own teachers. Lessons abound for us. There is a reason that we are here in
this life now and part of that is to learn. Swadhyaya lasts a lifetime .
So , perhaps our task and responsibility as Spiritual Seekers, could be to set aside times for Reflection
that help us reach moments of calm – because in those moments we
can more readily enter periods of Inner Silence and Tranquility and thus
both Listen to and ‘hear’ the inner
voice that enables us find our Inner Moral Compass, to more fully
understand and be aware of our choices
and thus discern the right choice.
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